jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
The way we grew up was different
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In a similar fashion, men have found ourselves having to sack up once again, after allowing ourselves to be emasculatedTo remember that oneitis is not a modern issue.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I haven't heard that song in a long time. Overall, that song from 2005 is far more blue pill than the Ambrosia song from 1980. One would expect that as the writer/singer was a woman.The most beta song ever is "We belong together" by Mariah Carey. My niece used to listen to this song 24/7. At some point I became hooked through osmosis. There was a period where I got cucked almost every weekend because I kept listening to that song. I truely believe songs carry an energy and wavelength that affects your vibe.
If you dont believe me, have the song on repeat about 5 times, go out to the bars and clubs, and report back what happened.
Yeah, no one would accuse Peter Steele(PBUH) of being "a beta", yet he wrote the following:Third, not all songs that sound "blue pill" really are upon further inspection
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Achieving fame and fortune extremely young has it's drawbacks: Fellas like Mayer often stall out psychologically and intellectually, continue thinking and behaving as if they're in their late teens-early 20s, decades after the factFor example, I really like John Mayer; his style is unique.
But the lyrics are 80% about the theme of beta love and how a man is lost without this woman
So the theme of we belong together by Mariah Carey is that she is getting married to same rich guy but still has feelings for her simp lover who mopes around, looks sad, and acts emotional like a woman.The majority of popular songs from the 1960s-present express a blue pill ideology. The majority of males have a blue pill ideology and women do like to promote that idealized version of love that doesn't translate in the real world.
Many of these songs with blue pill ideology messages do sound good with the instrumentation or advanced sound effects depending on when they were released.
I mentioned this in a 2023 thread. At the time, I cited Ambrosia's "You're the Only Woman" as a song that could promote scarcity mentality. The title sounds beta and on the surface, it could be considered beta.
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The Beta Male Anthem!
The cucks here are the guys bringing their girlfriends to these concerts just so they can fantasize about Bret Michaels, etc. They're not really fantasizing about the Tal Bachmans of the world though. Back in the day, guys in hard rock bands like Poison, Motley Crue, and Bon Jovi banged a lot...www.sosuave.net
@BillyPilgrim and I had a good back-and-forth about this in the thread. @BillyPilgrim and I agree that the song is seductive.
As I re-read the lyrics in the moment, they aren't overly beta. One line is beta in "I know you're the only woman that I'm dreamin' of" but another line isn't that beta when it is said that the woman has the following feelings
"And you were so afraid
That I'd found someone new
But darlin', well, there's no need
For what we're goin' through"
If the woman has feelings that the man has found someone new after what appears to be a somewhat serious disagreement, she's into him and realizes that he has value to other women. That's not hardcore beta since that guy would be appealing to other women. A hardcore beta wouldn't be, but the average beta male of the late 1970s/early 1980s was more attractive to women than average betas of 2000-present.
The song was released in 1980 and the late 1970s/early 1980s were a different time in the mating environment.
I haven't heard that song in a long time. Overall, that song from 2005 is far more blue pill than the Ambrosia song from 1980. One would expect that as the writer/singer was a woman.
How were you cucked by that song?
If you got a problem, don't care what it is
You need a hand, I can assure you this
I can help
I got two strong arms, I can help
It would sure do me good to do you good
Let me help
Let me help
If your child needs a daddy, I can help
It would sure do me good to do you good
Let me help
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.