That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Think about cancel culture and how simps/white knights team up to destroy an alpha male. This kind of stuff is still happening right now.Doesn't this video simply imply that alpha males have changed their strats to survive against the beta coalition? After all, if they are alpha, that means they still have inherent qualities that put them above the rest. It doesn't mean humans have lost the alpha. It just means the alpha found a new way to hide. To adapt.
None of the people canceled are alpha if they are capable of being canceled.Think about cancel culture and how simps/white knights team up to destroy an alpha male. This kind of stuff is still happening right now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah man Actually Beta doesnt won anything, women are running the world now.The funny thing however is that antisocial behaviours are not that antisocial when its a top dog doing them...so much that women themselves are fine with that and so are the betas those women manipulate.
The point of the video, I think, is that in human societies, alpha males are not at the top. As the guy in the video correctly points out, an alpha male is simply someone who has a high capacity for reactive violence. In a contemporary human society, this is not seen as a positive trait. People who violently lash out at every perceived insult quickly end up in jail (or dead).Doesn't this video simply imply that alpha males have changed their strats to survive against the beta coalition? After all, if they are alpha, that means they still have inherent qualities that put them above the rest. It doesn't mean humans have lost the alpha. It just means the alpha found a new way to hide. To adapt.
That's my problem with that video, alpha males aren't solely because of their capability of violence. Anyone can be violent, but an alpha is also one who is literally the merit leader through his ability to organize, emphasize, and also show violence or assertiveness when needed. A violent ape is merely a dictator, but a leading ape that uses that violence only when necessary is the true alpha. People with retard strength were never alpha.The point of the video, I think, is that in human societies, alpha males are not at the top. As the guy in the video correctly points out, an alpha male is simply someone who has a high capacity for reactive violence. In a contemporary human society, this is not seen as a positive trait. People who violently lash out at every perceived insult quickly end up in jail (or dead).
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I think another point in the video is that humans learned to work together to overcome stronger foes, Animals that hunt in packs are a lot more successful compared to solitary hunters. A lot of the alpha traits he described were primitive features like a very well defined brow ridge, But he is correct in that we got way more beta over time.That's my problem with that video, alpha males aren't solely because of their capability of violence. Anyone can be violent, but an alpha is also one who is literally the merit leader through his ability to organize, emphasize, and also show violence or assertiveness when needed. A violent ape is merely a dictator, but a leading ape that uses that violence only when necessary is the true alpha. People with retard strength were never alpha.

It's kinda true how heavy this hits. I hang around a lot of nerds, and you got guys who don't have all the qualities the normal alpha person has and yet they each have access to girls that I would say are at least a 6. Obviously, they have some emotional issues as you expect from girls who go out with those guys, but these guys aren't exactly in the ugly tier, either. Women will settle with something she likes and won't try to bat higher than that. Whether cause of insecurity issues or she doesn't want to upset her current situation even if she doesn't think it's 100%.
So maybe this is the end of the hypergamy wars and people will live in peace and harmonyIt's kinda true how heavy this hits. I hang around a lot of nerds, and you got guys who don't have all the qualities the normal alpha person has and yet they each have access to girls that I would say are at least a 6. Obviously, they have some emotional issues as you expect from girls who go out with those guys, but these guys aren't exactly in the ugly tier, either. Women will settle with something she likes and won't try to bat higher than that. Whether cause of insecurity issues or she doesn't want to upset her current situation even if she doesn't think it's 100%.
Funny part is that this is how I think relationships should be. Women should not be trying to go for the top 20% and instead getting with guys more in her range or local.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.