"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jacketrunner

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On dating, relationships, SMV, psychology, etc.

Ones I’ve listened to:
Corey Wayne (good fundamentals but cheesy and wastes time)
Coach Craig (good fundamentals but also wastes time)
Rollo Tomassi interviews
COCO Chanou (surprisingly good for a girl)

Anyone else that’s good to listen to? Podcasts work too.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Old RSD Max videos, Todd Valentine and of course the first of them all mysterious guy ;)
 

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On dating, relationships, SMV, psychology, etc.

Ones I’ve listened to:
Corey Wayne (good fundamentals but cheesy and wastes time)
Coach Craig (good fundamentals but also wastes time)
Rollo Tomassi interviews
COCO Chanou (surprisingly good for a girl)

Anyone else that’s good to listen to? Podcasts work too.
Corey Wayne is too beta for my taste. He is a relationship chaser.

AMS- Alpha Male Strategies.........he is a touch thug for my taste but his principles and strategies are totally on point.
 

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Corey Wayne is too beta for my taste. He is a relationship chaser.

AMS- Alpha Male Strategies.........he is a touch thug for my taste but his principles and strategies are totally on point.
For bar/club dating and plates AMS has the recipe. He puts in words the kind of mindset required to be successful in those endeavors. The women are stupid behind a guy like that because he feeds the woman's need to be challenged and to have something to chase.
 

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Corey Wayne is too beta for my taste. He is a relationship chaser.
Yea I've listened to him in the car at times, and did read his book.... ONCE... if someone told me I had to read it again I would gouge my eyes out. No way I could ever get through that thing 10 times like he suggests. The book is ten times longer than it needs to be, dry and humorless... filled with stupid anecdotal personal stories, and Tony Robbins self-help BS. One part of the book that sticks out in my mind was when he told his readers to sit down and make a list of all the things you want in a woman.... Jesus... that's like something out of a chick magazine, but it's the kind of stuff that Robbins teaches. I can summarize Tony Robbins in a sentence: "If you want something, get off your lazy @ss and go after it." There I just saved you a thousand bucks and a weekend of stupidity attending his seminar. Having said that, some of what Wayne says is good stuff, but that 'good stuff' is taken right out of Doc Love's "The System", which unlike Wayne's book, is actually pretty easy to read, funny, gets to the point, and something you can read many many times without losing your mind.

AMS- Alpha Male Strategies.........he is a touch thug for my taste but his principles and strategies are totally on point.
Never heard of this guy until last week. Someone sent me a video of his top ten dating commandments. He is spot on. I'll have to listen to more of his stuff.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yea I've listen to him in the car at times, and did read his book.... ONCE... if someone told me I had to read it again I would gouge my eyes out. No way I could ever get through that thing 10 times like he suggests. The book is ten times longer than it needs to be, dry and humorless... filled with stupid anecdotal personal stories, and Tony Robbins self-help BS. One part of the book that sticks out in my mind was when he told his reading to sit down and make a list of all the things you want in a woman.... Jesus... that's like something out of a chick magazine, but it's the kind of stuff that Robbins teaches. I can summarize Tony Robbins in a sentence: "If you want something, get off your lazy @ss and go after it." There I just saved you a thousand bucks and a weekend of stupidity attending his seminar. Having said that, some of what Wayne says is good stuff, but that 'good stuff' is taken right out of Doc Love's "The System", which unlike Wayne's book, is actually pretty easy to read, funny, gets to the point, and something you can read many many times without losing your mind.

Never heard of this guy until last week. Someone sent me a video of his top ten dating commandments. He is spot on. I'll have to listen to more of his stuff.
I actually just finished reading 3% Man this weekend. I enjoyed it, but I’m definitely gonna have to let it sit a bit before reading again. He had some really good points though.

I’d agree that AMS is spot on. He tells you the straight up truth.

Some other ones to listen to while you work are Roosh V(if you’re into that), Dr. Nerdlove, Based Zeus, etc
 

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Corey Wayne is too beta for my taste. He is a relationship chaser.

AMS- Alpha Male Strategies.........he is a touch thug for my taste but his principles and strategies are totally on point.
I want a relationship too, so I can marry and have kids. Girls always put me in the “party boy hookup” spot.

It’s easy for me to get same night lays, but I’ve never had a long-lasting relationship.

Rollo Tomassi has a wife and a daughter, which is what I want as well.

I want to figure out the best way to run a relationship. How to have the right mix of alpha and beta qualities, choosing the right woman, etc.
 

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I want a relationship too, so I can marry and have kids. Girls always put me in the “party boy hookup” spot.

It’s easy for me to get same night lays, but I’ve never had a long-lasting relationship.

Rollo Tomassi has a wife and a daughter, which is what I want as well.

I want to figure out the best way to run a relationship. How to have the right mix of alpha and beta qualities, choosing the right woman, etc.
For me it's opposite. I'm mostly treated as relationship material -- if women sleeps with me she sticks for long time. Basically it's hard for me to get some quick and frequent ONS
 

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Zan Perrion for the 'suave gentleman' style.
Marcus Oakey for charisma / conversation.
James Marshall for the cool calm and collected, multiple relationships and relationship dynamics (probably one of the best I've heard).

Wayne is OK. Good for a short, sharp pep talk on certain subjects when you're starting out. Not a great deal of depth nor breadth to the material.
 

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I like AMS & Entrepreneurs in Cars at the moment.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jacketrunner

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I’ve been getting into Julien Blanc’s relationship advice lately. Surprisingly good for someone who seems like such a sociopath.

He’s actually a really smart guy.
 
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