"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best Way To Tell If Your Date Is Really A Woman

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I know this is quite an unusual topic that hasn't been addressed but I'm curious if anyone has any tips in this area, especially in the world of online dating.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Check for a pronounced adam's apple, stubble marks/rough skin along the jaws, check for pronounced protrusion in the crotch area when naked.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Juan_Man

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Would asking for a childhood photo be out of the question?
 

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ask her if she has a d!ck.
 

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A twist

Alright folks, you are suggested using web camera, talking to her on the phone, an and meeting her. What happens if you she 'appears' female, 'sounds' female, and 'looks' female, yet she was "born" a MAN? that will be funny, huh?
 

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Rebound Material said:
ask her if she has a d!ck.
gender change procedure, or whatever it is called. will you dig it?
 

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Look for an adams apple. Also look at their hands and their feet. Women hands and feet are generally genetically skinner and/or smaller then mens feet. That's how i can usually spot one out if i'm not looking for the adams apple.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well hah, if you're asking how to tell how she didn't have a sex change or something, she'll have a vagina.
 

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When she comes over for the date, ask HER to drive somewhere where she has NEVER been before...

...and if she DOESN'T ask for directions-------- "she's a MANNNNNN, baby! Yeahhhhh!"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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amoka said:
Alright folks, you are suggested using web camera, talking to her on the phone, an and meeting her. What happens if you she 'appears' female, 'sounds' female, and 'looks' female, yet she was "born" a MAN? that will be funny, huh?
No, that'd be a Cryin' Game...whoops. Sorry. I meant Crying shame. Shame. Yeah. Did I say game? Silly me.:D
 

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Juan_Man said:
I know this is quite an unusual topic that hasn't been addressed but I'm curious if anyone has any tips in this area, especially in the world of online dating.

Don't worry about the online crap. It is a waste of time and work you put into it up until the point you meet.

What if you meet them and they used a fake picture. What if... what if.....

How many what if's are there in this situation?

Go out into the real world meet girls in a social situation so you can actually talk and see them in action. Hear their laugh (not annoying/annoying) see if they are social butterflies...ect.

Don't waste your time online...
 

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hahhahahaha

happyguy said:
Check for a pronounced adam's apple, stubble marks/rough skin along the jaws, check for pronounced protrusion in the crotch area when naked.
hahahahhaha I dont know whats funnier, the person asking the question, or the person answering it in a form of science....
 

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hahahhhaha

Victory Unlimited said:
When she comes over for the date, ask HER to drive somewhere where she has NEVER been before...

...and if she DOESN'T ask for directions-------- "she's a MANNNNNN, baby! Yeahhhhh!"

HAHAHHA....

and a HAHAHHAHA
 

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Common, they are easy to spot. First they don't have the (b)itch shield up when out like real women do, and they give away various clues ie size of hands etc, and body language.

And they usually hang around certain bars or clubs, so keep out of them. Go fishing else where...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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