"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best Way To Tell If Your Date Is Really A Woman

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I know this is quite an unusual topic that hasn't been addressed but I'm curious if anyone has any tips in this area, especially in the world of online dating.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Check for a pronounced adam's apple, stubble marks/rough skin along the jaws, check for pronounced protrusion in the crotch area when naked.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Juan_Man

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Would asking for a childhood photo be out of the question?
 

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ask her if she has a d!ck.
 

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A twist

Alright folks, you are suggested using web camera, talking to her on the phone, an and meeting her. What happens if you she 'appears' female, 'sounds' female, and 'looks' female, yet she was "born" a MAN? that will be funny, huh?
 

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Rebound Material said:
ask her if she has a d!ck.
gender change procedure, or whatever it is called. will you dig it?
 

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Look for an adams apple. Also look at their hands and their feet. Women hands and feet are generally genetically skinner and/or smaller then mens feet. That's how i can usually spot one out if i'm not looking for the adams apple.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well hah, if you're asking how to tell how she didn't have a sex change or something, she'll have a vagina.
 

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When she comes over for the date, ask HER to drive somewhere where she has NEVER been before...

...and if she DOESN'T ask for directions-------- "she's a MANNNNNN, baby! Yeahhhhh!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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amoka said:
Alright folks, you are suggested using web camera, talking to her on the phone, an and meeting her. What happens if you she 'appears' female, 'sounds' female, and 'looks' female, yet she was "born" a MAN? that will be funny, huh?
No, that'd be a Cryin' Game...whoops. Sorry. I meant Crying shame. Shame. Yeah. Did I say game? Silly me.:D
 

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Juan_Man said:
I know this is quite an unusual topic that hasn't been addressed but I'm curious if anyone has any tips in this area, especially in the world of online dating.

Don't worry about the online crap. It is a waste of time and work you put into it up until the point you meet.

What if you meet them and they used a fake picture. What if... what if.....

How many what if's are there in this situation?

Go out into the real world meet girls in a social situation so you can actually talk and see them in action. Hear their laugh (not annoying/annoying) see if they are social butterflies...ect.

Don't waste your time online...
 

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hahhahahaha

happyguy said:
Check for a pronounced adam's apple, stubble marks/rough skin along the jaws, check for pronounced protrusion in the crotch area when naked.
hahahahhaha I dont know whats funnier, the person asking the question, or the person answering it in a form of science....
 

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hahahhhaha

Victory Unlimited said:
When she comes over for the date, ask HER to drive somewhere where she has NEVER been before...

...and if she DOESN'T ask for directions-------- "she's a MANNNNNN, baby! Yeahhhhh!"

HAHAHHA....

and a HAHAHHAHA
 

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Common, they are easy to spot. First they don't have the (b)itch shield up when out like real women do, and they give away various clues ie size of hands etc, and body language.

And they usually hang around certain bars or clubs, so keep out of them. Go fishing else where...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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