"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best Way To Tell If Your Date Is Really A Woman
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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amoka
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Alright folks, you are suggested using web camera, talking to her on the phone, an and meeting her. What happens if you she 'appears' female, 'sounds' female, and 'looks' female, yet she was "born" a MAN? that will be funny, huh?
Alphamale1821
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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My hands could pass for girl hands :cheer:Alphamale1821 said:
http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v108/120/105/877730245/n877730245_900895_6094.jpg
top left is mine, top right is another guy, bottom 3 are girls
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ElStud said:
They can surgically create a vagina, it's crazy.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
...and if she DOESN'T ask for directions-------- "she's a MANNNNNN, baby! Yeahhhhh!"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Juan_Man said:
Don't worry about the online crap. It is a waste of time and work you put into it up until the point you meet.
What if you meet them and they used a fake picture. What if... what if.....
How many what if's are there in this situation?
Go out into the real world meet girls in a social situation so you can actually talk and see them in action. Hear their laugh (not annoying/annoying) see if they are social butterflies...ect.
Don't waste your time online...
TruthHurts
Don Juan
hahahahhaha I dont know whats funnier, the person asking the question, or the person answering it in a form of science....happyguy said:
TruthHurts
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Victory Unlimited said:
HAHAHHA....
and a HAHAHHAHA
And they usually hang around certain bars or clubs, so keep out of them. Go fishing else where...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.