"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best Way to Play Jealousy Card?

StrangeButTrue

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I've never really played the jealousy card before with chicks I'm working, but I'd like to take it for a spin. So my question is, in your experience, what's the most effective way to do so? Do I mention the other girl casually in conversation? Have a friend bring it up?

No keyboard jockeys please.:yes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kings_royalty

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In my experience, showing 'other' girls more attention (more than the girl you are interested in) in a group environment is the way to go. If you bring up a girl casually in conversation, two things will happen.

1.Your target will see right through this tactic (girls are experts at this game).
2.She will probably get defensive.
 

jaymo

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ditto.

its good to have REAL female friends and spend time with them. This serves as a good test to see what kind of girl that she is, because if she starts giving you grief about it it means that you got a psycho or needy girl and should prolly be prepared to break it off. At the very least, it means that she's crazy about you because your time with other females is provoking a reaction from her.

But why would you want to play the "jealousy card" as you put it? If she sees right through it, it smacks of neediness and manipulative behavior, and you will prolly lose on this one.

do this with the attitude that what you do is a test of what she is like, and that if she doesnt pass then she's out.
 
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