"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best Way to Play Jealousy Card?

StrangeButTrue

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I've never really played the jealousy card before with chicks I'm working, but I'd like to take it for a spin. So my question is, in your experience, what's the most effective way to do so? Do I mention the other girl casually in conversation? Have a friend bring it up?

No keyboard jockeys please.:yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kings_royalty

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In my experience, showing 'other' girls more attention (more than the girl you are interested in) in a group environment is the way to go. If you bring up a girl casually in conversation, two things will happen.

1.Your target will see right through this tactic (girls are experts at this game).
2.She will probably get defensive.
 

jaymo

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ditto.

its good to have REAL female friends and spend time with them. This serves as a good test to see what kind of girl that she is, because if she starts giving you grief about it it means that you got a psycho or needy girl and should prolly be prepared to break it off. At the very least, it means that she's crazy about you because your time with other females is provoking a reaction from her.

But why would you want to play the "jealousy card" as you put it? If she sees right through it, it smacks of neediness and manipulative behavior, and you will prolly lose on this one.

do this with the attitude that what you do is a test of what she is like, and that if she doesnt pass then she's out.
 
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