"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best Way to Play Jealousy Card?

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StrangeButTrue

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I've never really played the jealousy card before with chicks I'm working, but I'd like to take it for a spin. So my question is, in your experience, what's the most effective way to do so? Do I mention the other girl casually in conversation? Have a friend bring it up?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In my experience, showing 'other' girls more attention (more than the girl you are interested in) in a group environment is the way to go. If you bring up a girl casually in conversation, two things will happen.

1.Your target will see right through this tactic (girls are experts at this game).
2.She will probably get defensive.
 
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ditto.

its good to have REAL female friends and spend time with them. This serves as a good test to see what kind of girl that she is, because if she starts giving you grief about it it means that you got a psycho or needy girl and should prolly be prepared to break it off. At the very least, it means that she's crazy about you because your time with other females is provoking a reaction from her.

But why would you want to play the "jealousy card" as you put it? If she sees right through it, it smacks of neediness and manipulative behavior, and you will prolly lose on this one.

do this with the attitude that what you do is a test of what she is like, and that if she doesnt pass then she's out.
 
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