“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fly By Night

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I got her number, but she does not have mine. How should my first message look like? I was going for a funny text with a hint about where we met. My only doubt about this is that she will get creeped out because it will appear as a random number on her phone.

How would you guys make the first text seem?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always do the " Hey ;) " line and if she was into me... she will respond positively by saying heyy.. then go from there.
 

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In2theGame said:
I always do the " Hey ;) " line and if she was into me... she will respond positively by saying heyy.. then go from there.
This one works for me as well, if she wants to talk she'll respond. Also it flips the tables as she's the one coming in cold rather than you had you begun with "Hi, what's up?"
 

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It's ok, I would rather come in strong and get rejected than come in weak, drag the conversation on, then get rejected when I decide to ask for a date.

Saving money on text messaging :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Men don't use smileys. I seriously hope you didn't text a smiley.
Indeed I did and it worked. Real Men aren't afraid to look a bit silly in front of women who are interested in them.
 

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Fly By Night said:
Son of a... I was wondering whether or not I should have and I chose to do so.
I'm just busting your balls. But for real, don't be one of those dudes always sending smileys.

Zerro said:
Indeed I did and it worked. Real Men aren't afraid to look a bit silly in front of women who are interested in them.
I make jokes and stuff. I just don't attach a ":)" at the end. Maybe I'm an old geezer at 31, but it just doesnt feel right.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An occasional smilie at the end also helps them know when you're being sarcastic when you may instead come across as mean, since text doesn't carry your facial expression or tone of voice. I do have much better results using them than not.
 

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Text her this: "you wanna fu@k?" and add a smiley face at the end.
 

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Wink faces are acceptable.

B!tches love wink faces.

Plus, as someone said, it helps with the whole sarcastic stuff. And makes innuendo that much better.
 

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I would put a smiley face in text messages...if I actually gave a sh*t about texting.

Texting is a beast all on its own. Things get taken the wrong way. People use it too much as their primary outlet of communication, and end up awkward in real life. Texting distorts things.


Back in the day, I would love to have long text conversations with girls and do all that smiley sh*t, because I felt like the longer conversations we had, the better we would "bond". However, that is not the case.


Now, I merely use text messaging as a quick gateway to plan something with someone, or quickly catch up with someone.


And @Fly By Night, "Hey ;)" should suffice. Let us know how it works out.
 

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I usually give her a nickname when we first meet.

That way, when I text her, it's obvious who it is.

I also refer back to some kind of teasing I did too.. it acts as an anchor to remind her of how much fun we had.

"Hey *nickname* .. still *blah blah blah ?*"

Then you get to continue the frame right from where you left off.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First text is always "Hey, it's Des! How are you?" Comedy follows the first text.

And WTF is with 'smileys' not being manly? I'm pretty sure it was a MAN who invented the goddam things back in the early 1980s as there were almost no computer savvy women back then.
 

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Desdinova said:
First text is always "Hey, it's Des! How are you?" Comedy follows the first text.

And WTF is with 'smileys' not being manly? I'm pretty sure it was a MAN who invented the goddam things back in the early 1980s as there were almost no computer savvy women back then.

Well, I mean....men invented tampons too. Doesn't make them manly.
 

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omega05 said:
B!tches love smiley faces
Yes, so if you are a b!tch, feel free to use a smiley face.

:crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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