"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best way to notice/tell a girl's IL

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sharpshooter

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Can someone give me a link to an article about the girl's IL? I'm new here and I have no idea where to look lol.

If not then what else other than intense eye contact can determine a girls IL?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LouieVaton Don

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The main idea here is to pay attention to the Non - Verbal Cues and behavior. What comes out of her mouth is only important when your trying to find out more about her, not when trying to gauge IL.

Example:
Say you took her out for an evening on the town, everything 'seemed' great but in reality you two just weren't compatible. Now at the end of the dat she may say, your a great guy and I had fun on our date. But she may be avoiding eye contact while she is saying it to you w/ her body leaning away. Hell she might even say would go on a 2nd date but she doesnt really mean it, in fact you won't hear from her again.
 
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Simple my man...

If she continually finds ways to keep the conversation going long after it would have normally comfortably ended, then she is interested. If they are interested, they will keep talking to you.

If they make no real effort to keep their side of a convo going, then you can pretty much guarantee there is no interest there.

There's a million other cues which others on the board here can tell you about, but if the girl doesn't want to hang around you in the first place, you won't see any of them.

Cheers
 
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