"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Best way to notice/tell a girl's IL

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sharpshooter

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Can someone give me a link to an article about the girl's IL? I'm new here and I have no idea where to look lol.

If not then what else other than intense eye contact can determine a girls IL?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LouieVaton Don

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The main idea here is to pay attention to the Non - Verbal Cues and behavior. What comes out of her mouth is only important when your trying to find out more about her, not when trying to gauge IL.

Example:
Say you took her out for an evening on the town, everything 'seemed' great but in reality you two just weren't compatible. Now at the end of the dat she may say, your a great guy and I had fun on our date. But she may be avoiding eye contact while she is saying it to you w/ her body leaning away. Hell she might even say would go on a 2nd date but she doesnt really mean it, in fact you won't hear from her again.
 
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Simple my man...

If she continually finds ways to keep the conversation going long after it would have normally comfortably ended, then she is interested. If they are interested, they will keep talking to you.

If they make no real effort to keep their side of a convo going, then you can pretty much guarantee there is no interest there.

There's a million other cues which others on the board here can tell you about, but if the girl doesn't want to hang around you in the first place, you won't see any of them.

Cheers
 
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