"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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best way to next?

epitome

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last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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epitome said:
last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
go up to her face and say "NEXT" the do this :moon: :p ;) :D

why do you want to be funny?
just be straight forrward
 

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yeah man, no need to be funny. Just stop texting her. If she doesn't contact you in 2 weeks or so, delete her number and forget her. In the mean time, just focus on other girls/activities and have a blast!
 

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good advice guys, thanks.

i was meaning c&f but i suppose i should just forget about her. no need to ***** back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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