"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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best way to next?

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last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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epitome said:
last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
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go up to her face and say "NEXT" the do this :moon: :p ;) :D

why do you want to be funny?
just be straight forrward
 
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yeah man, no need to be funny. Just stop texting her. If she doesn't contact you in 2 weeks or so, delete her number and forget her. In the mean time, just focus on other girls/activities and have a blast!
 
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good advice guys, thanks.

i was meaning c&f but i suppose i should just forget about her. no need to ***** back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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