"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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best way to next?

epitome

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last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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epitome said:
last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
go up to her face and say "NEXT" the do this :moon: :p ;) :D

why do you want to be funny?
just be straight forrward
 

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yeah man, no need to be funny. Just stop texting her. If she doesn't contact you in 2 weeks or so, delete her number and forget her. In the mean time, just focus on other girls/activities and have a blast!
 

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good advice guys, thanks.

i was meaning c&f but i suppose i should just forget about her. no need to ***** back.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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