"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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best way to next?

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last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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epitome said:
last night, i was feeling like shyt about life in general. then i read a thread on the comparison of the hunter and the dj. really got me up. i'm so inspired today to just improve myself. i haven't felt this way in such a long time.

anyways, this girl gave me her number about a week and a half ago. been texting her sparingly, with a pause between. i know i shouldn't be texting hardly at all but it seemed like the right move in the situation. called her babe a couple times and she's being a bytch and unnecessarily difficult.

what's the best way to next her? i could just stop talking to her, but i want something funnier than that. :crackup:
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go up to her face and say "NEXT" the do this :moon: :p ;) :D

why do you want to be funny?
just be straight forrward
 
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yeah man, no need to be funny. Just stop texting her. If she doesn't contact you in 2 weeks or so, delete her number and forget her. In the mean time, just focus on other girls/activities and have a blast!
 
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good advice guys, thanks.

i was meaning c&f but i suppose i should just forget about her. no need to ***** back.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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