I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I didn’t inadvertently suggest it, I directly stated that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Still you going like yes there are, there are. But to be honest with you there are not in my memory women on vacation alone, or with boyfriends, or with husbands, who haven't fcked on the side. I dont' fck all, but in my field of view, they all fcked with someone. It's a given. If they come here to my spot on vacation, they fck. It is the nature of the beast like you put it.
This is why I don't drink on dates. People and 'things' go easier when alcohol had lubricated you, lol
Leason learned, i dont drink often but when i do i go all out.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Go all out at home, its much safer. Depending on how you really feel about your LTR ending, drinking around females might not be good for awhile.
Im havin no regret about leaving my ltr and feel good about it.
Its female logic that seeds said afterthought. Proceed accordingly.