"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dhoulmagus

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Most of the girls i have access too are racist af. Ive tried my hardest and failed . Im not 21 so i cant go to another city.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's not racist to not want to date what ever race you are.
 

Dhoulmagus

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Yes, it is because the countries media/culture promotes caucasian features and degrades any thing not related to anglo saxons. If people preferred their own race than I would have no trouble getting black girls, but the black girls I want only date white guys. Same for asian females. I can understand religion and culture, but this is ridiculous. Back to the question, have any of you all tried p4p?
 

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Nigga Please

Stop shiftfing blame, it ain't the chicks, it's you. Improve your life and your game and this should improve your life.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
Stop shiftfing blame, it ain't the chicks, it's you. Improve your life and your game and this should improve your life.

Women DO like white men more than others, esp asian men. This is a fact. Think about how many white guys are with asian girls. How many asian guys are with white girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No, it's not racist to not be attracted to those of another race anymore than it's "shallow" to not be attracted to fat women or short bald guys. Attraction just is what it is and it's not something anyone has control over.

Racism is an actual decision someone makes to be, in fact, racist. Attraction doesn't work that way. Yes, there can be underlying societal factors that influence what one is attracted to, or not, and some of those can be rooted in racism, but that is all baked in the cake, so to speak. No one wakes up one morning and decides to be or not be attracted to anyone because of their race or otherwise. The closest I've ever heard of any such thing is teenagers doing the opposite because the rebellion factor appeals to them on some level.

It's not "society's" fault that you chose to go to school where you do. Big traditional southern universities are rough for lots of people for lots of reasons, including plenty of white people, so stop playing the race card all the time. I guarantee for every guy like you at a school like yours there are easily 10 white yankees who can't get laid just because they are from Michigan or New Jersey and another 100 white southern chicks who can't get the guys they want because they wound up in lower tier sororities or none at all because they didn't go to the right high school or didn't have the right family connections going into rush. Forget about having a few extra pounds. Those campuses are notorious for being elitist about everything for everyone. Southern sorority chicks are the biggest snobs on the planet about everything, with all guys and with each other. So get over yourself and stop blaming racism. It's ridiculous.

You aren't going to shame white women into being attracted to you anymore than fat women are going to shame me into being attracted to them. No one owes anyone their attraction regardless of what political correctness may say to the contrary.

Again, it's not anyone's fault for chosing to go to school there but yours. It has always been this way for everyone, and it's not going to suddenly change because you showed up and started crying "racism." You made a poor college choice....You can still do what all the girls who got burned in rush do...Transfer.

In the meantime, keep improving yourself and work on your game. Look at it this way...if you are totally screwed (which you aren't, btw) you can get infinate practice with absolutely nothing to lose. When you get someplace else you will be good to go. Most of all stop copping out crying racisim. You are only hurting youself in the long run.
 

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Don_Dom said:
No, it's not racist to not be attracted to those of another race anymore than it's "shallow" to not be attracted to fat women or short bald guys. Attraction just is what it is and it's not something anyone has control over.

Racism is an actual decision someone makes to be, in fact, racist. Attraction doesn't work that way. Yes, there can be underlying societal factors that influence what one is attracted to, or not, and some of those can be rooted in racism, but that is all baked in the cake, so to speak. No one wakes up one morning and decides to be or not be attracted to anyone because of their race or otherwise. The closest I've ever heard of any such thing is teenagers doing the opposite because the rebellion factor appeals to them on some level.

It's not "society's" fault that you chose to go to school where you do. Big traditional southern universities are rough for lots of people for lots of reasons, including plenty of white people, so stop playing the race card all the time. I guarantee for every guy like you at a school like yours there are easily 10 white yankees who can't get laid just because they are Michigan or New Jersey and another 100 white southern chicks who can't get the guys they want because they wound up in lower tier sororities or none at all because they didn't go to the right high school or didn't have the right family connections going into rush. Forget about being a few extra pounds. Those campuses are notorious for being elitist about everything for everyone. Southern sorority chicks are the biggest snobs on the planet about everything, with all guys and with each other. So get over yourself and stop blaming racism. It's ridiculous.

You aren't going to shame white women into being attracted to you anymore than fat women are going to shame me into being attracted to them.

Again, it's not anyone's fault for chosing to go to school there but yours. It has always been this way for everyone, and it's not going to suddenly change because you showed up and started crying "racism." You made a poor college choice....You can still do what all the girls who got burned in rush do...Transfer.

In the meantime, keep improving yourself and work on your game. Most of all stop cooling out crying racisim. You are only hurting youself in the long run.
I would absolutely LOVE to live in a backward town in the south. In fact I am planning to move to Texas. The chicks there are so much down to earth, aren't gold diggers, and know how to party. Quite hot too. They would find me exotic cause I don't look like them. Out in Cali, there's a bunch of dudes like me so I get completely ignored. Also out here the women are super fake and shallow…the only type of guy they like out here is a jacked dude with tattoos. If you don't look like a dbag, you don't have a chance unless you're super rich or something.
 

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The only you way u don't have a chance is by you yourself not giving yourself that chance. Get out there....it might take "longer", but ur giving urself that chance. And phuck it...ur giving some lucky gurl the chance u dummy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skinnyguy said:
I would absolutely LOVE to live in a backward town in the south. In fact I am planning to move to Texas. The chicks there are so much down to earth, aren't gold diggers, and know how to party. Quite hot too. They would find me exotic cause I don't look like them. Out in Cali, there's a bunch of dudes like me so I get completely ignored. Also out here the women are super fake and shallow…the only type of guy they like out here is a jacked dude with tattoos. If you don't look like a dbag, you don't have a chance unless you're super rich or something.
You can find that, but choose carefully. "The south" is 10,000 places and it's all a little different depending on where you are. People and places run the gamut down here depending on where you are, but it can seem like everyone is the same because it tends to be that way in pockets. There are a couple places here I can think of where ripped tattoo guys and rich guys get all the action, too, but it's not everywhere. There are places where its pretty much all hippies, for example. Where the OP is happens to be a mid sized city with a large university, complete with a large traditional Greek system the pretty much runs everything. There are several places like that around the south. And probably not the best choice for a black guy who is into white girls, especially the ones at the upper end if the social strata. There are other places down here that are, though.

The south can be a great choice for people from other areas who are looking for a change. Just not EVERY place depending on what you are looking for. Hell, I'm from here and there are lots of places down here I don't care to visit much less live in.
 

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Don_Dom said:
You can find that, but choose carefully. "The south" is 10,000 places and it's all a little different depending on where you are. People and places run the gamut down here depending on where you are, but it can seem like everyone is the same because it tends to be that way in pockets. There are a couple places here I can think of where ripped tattoo guys and rich guys get all the action, too, but it's not everywhere. There are places where its pretty much all hippies, for example. Where the OP is happens to be a mid sized city with a large university, complete with a large traditional Greek system the pretty much runs everything. There are several places like that around the south. And probably not the best choice for a black guy who is into white girls, especially the ones at the upper end if the social strata. There are other places down here that are, though.

The south can be a great choice for people from other areas who are looking for a change. Just not EVERY place depending on what you are looking for. Hell, I'm from here and there are lots of places down here I don't care to visit much less live in.
I know what you're saying, I mean I wouldn't go to Tuscaloosa or anything…but I think Dallas and Orlando are great places to meet women (I haven't had a ton of experience but it's way better than Cali that's for sure). I'm not black or white. So I'm like lost in the shuffle. If you're not white or black, you have very slim chances as a guy. Doesn't work for women that way though - my sister is a player and has had way more relationships than I have. Guess what race all the guys were? White.
 

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For the recorded, there are hookers who won't sleep with black or Asian guys either. So yeah, being part of those race sucks.

Now we got that out of the way, ask yourself this, does 0% of white girl want to date black or Asian guy? No.? Say 10% of white girls don't mind dating black or Asian, then BE that 10%! Yeah is tougher, but if you really want it, think about what u need to do, then you will get what you want.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yep. I heard about backpage a few weeks ago. It's pretty fvcking popular. I doubt I'll use it, but it seems legit.
 

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you're better than paying for heaux. You just got to give approaching a shot.
What's the point of approaching if he just gets rejected? If the man wants an escort let him get one. People here think that if you just keep approaching you'll get laid. Life doesn't work that way.
 
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What's the point of approaching if he just gets rejected? If the man wants an escort let him get one. People here think that if you just keep approaching you'll get laid. Life doesn't work that way.
Preach! I've never paid for sex, but I'm a big proponent. $150 bucks for no strings sex with a good looking broad? Yes.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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