Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


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Can you make the question a little clearer bro...you mean like, you get a message from a friend of yours (girl) but you dont recognize the voice right?
 

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I mean, a message (text) in a celular phone.

I´m receiving text messages from a gal, but the only thing that I can identify is her phone number. From all the numbers/names I have saved in my celular phone, her number is not saved. So, it is some gal that has my celular phone number but that knows that I don´t know who she is...!

I can answer back, because it´s not a confidential message, the number is identified....

Her messages show high interest. Personaly, I think this is kind of teenager behaviour...! My opinion is that one should say things looking in the eyes, instead of hiding behind a phone number that my celular doens´t recognize. I have my suspicions and the gal in question is 30.

I´ve been avoiding to answer back. Answering back may sound that I´m a kind of needy, right?


So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lord Sidious said:
So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
Give her a call. If she doesn´t pick it up, forget the whole thing.
 
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