"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


Thanks
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Can you make the question a little clearer bro...you mean like, you get a message from a friend of yours (girl) but you dont recognize the voice right?
 
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I mean, a message (text) in a celular phone.

I´m receiving text messages from a gal, but the only thing that I can identify is her phone number. From all the numbers/names I have saved in my celular phone, her number is not saved. So, it is some gal that has my celular phone number but that knows that I don´t know who she is...!

I can answer back, because it´s not a confidential message, the number is identified....

Her messages show high interest. Personaly, I think this is kind of teenager behaviour...! My opinion is that one should say things looking in the eyes, instead of hiding behind a phone number that my celular doens´t recognize. I have my suspicions and the gal in question is 30.

I´ve been avoiding to answer back. Answering back may sound that I´m a kind of needy, right?


So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lord Sidious said:
So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
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Give her a call. If she doesn´t pick it up, forget the whole thing.
 
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