"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


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Can you make the question a little clearer bro...you mean like, you get a message from a friend of yours (girl) but you dont recognize the voice right?
 
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I mean, a message (text) in a celular phone.

I´m receiving text messages from a gal, but the only thing that I can identify is her phone number. From all the numbers/names I have saved in my celular phone, her number is not saved. So, it is some gal that has my celular phone number but that knows that I don´t know who she is...!

I can answer back, because it´s not a confidential message, the number is identified....

Her messages show high interest. Personaly, I think this is kind of teenager behaviour...! My opinion is that one should say things looking in the eyes, instead of hiding behind a phone number that my celular doens´t recognize. I have my suspicions and the gal in question is 30.

I´ve been avoiding to answer back. Answering back may sound that I´m a kind of needy, right?


So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lord Sidious said:
So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
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Give her a call. If she doesn´t pick it up, forget the whole thing.
 
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