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Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


Thanks
 

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Lord Sidious said:
Hi, guys!


In your opinion, what is the best way to deal with a situation in which one receive phone messages from a gal that is not identified (from our phone contacts), but with her phone number identified?


Thanks
Can you make the question a little clearer bro...you mean like, you get a message from a friend of yours (girl) but you dont recognize the voice right?
 

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I mean, a message (text) in a celular phone.

I´m receiving text messages from a gal, but the only thing that I can identify is her phone number. From all the numbers/names I have saved in my celular phone, her number is not saved. So, it is some gal that has my celular phone number but that knows that I don´t know who she is...!

I can answer back, because it´s not a confidential message, the number is identified....

Her messages show high interest. Personaly, I think this is kind of teenager behaviour...! My opinion is that one should say things looking in the eyes, instead of hiding behind a phone number that my celular doens´t recognize. I have my suspicions and the gal in question is 30.

I´ve been avoiding to answer back. Answering back may sound that I´m a kind of needy, right?


So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
 

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Lord Sidious said:
So, what´s your opinion about the best way to deal with this situation?
Give her a call. If she doesn´t pick it up, forget the whole thing.
 
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