"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best way to deal with disrespect from woman

ImprovingJuan

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Imagine a woman being shallow, thinking they are above you in every level and being rude / treating you as inferior.

what's the best way to deal with that? neg hits? what if its not her ***** shield in action, but her being rude because she's not attracted to you?

some women act *****y and rude to men they dont have empathy with. believe me, its the truth.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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Ignore her.
 

VladPatton

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You don't put up with it and you leave her proximity and/or sever all ties and connections. Don't volunteer to be disrespected by a scummy twӓt.
 
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BeDJ

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I'm going to blatantly say this and receive a lot of negative feedback.

A woman who is interested in you will rarely give you any sh!t test. That's right. Most sh!t tests come from women rejecting a man, and it is his way of coming to terms. A woman who is interested in you will not sh!t test you (of course later in the relationship they might.)

Disrespect from a woman early on absolutely means they are not interested in you. 'Sh!t tests' from a woman early on means they are not interested in you. Take it for what it is. Don't let your ego get in the way.

A woman in the early stages of dating with half a brain is going to let you know she is interested.
 

Stagger Lee

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Sh!t tests vs. being rude and disrespectful are two different things. Sh!t test is something women sometimes do when they are attracted to you but are testing your frame. Bottom line is there's some attraction there and you can fvck her if you don't change frame .

Rude and disrespect is a girl that's not interested in you and is trying to crush your self confidence. I call her out and go on my way.

Generally a woman who is interested/attracted is pleasant and compliant but not always. Sometimes a woman is friendly and it's not attraction, and sometimes a woman sh!t tests and there is attraction. Disrepect and rudeness is a whole other thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jake-a-roo4

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By leaving. Leaving is not a sign of weakness it is a sign of strength. Weak men allow women to disrespect cos they are not a strong man the woman has utter contempt for him. A weak man will stay to be disrespected cos the woman knows that she is superior to the man she treats as inferior. Each time the man lets it goes on the worse the woman will treat him cos of her disgust. Leave that kind of woman cos that will be the only way you can be free.
 
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