"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best way to deal with disrespect from woman

ImprovingJuan

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Imagine a woman being shallow, thinking they are above you in every level and being rude / treating you as inferior.

what's the best way to deal with that? neg hits? what if its not her ***** shield in action, but her being rude because she's not attracted to you?

some women act *****y and rude to men they dont have empathy with. believe me, its the truth.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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El Payaso

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Ignore her.
 

VladPatton

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You don't put up with it and you leave her proximity and/or sever all ties and connections. Don't volunteer to be disrespected by a scummy twӓt.
 
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BeDJ

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I'm going to blatantly say this and receive a lot of negative feedback.

A woman who is interested in you will rarely give you any sh!t test. That's right. Most sh!t tests come from women rejecting a man, and it is his way of coming to terms. A woman who is interested in you will not sh!t test you (of course later in the relationship they might.)

Disrespect from a woman early on absolutely means they are not interested in you. 'Sh!t tests' from a woman early on means they are not interested in you. Take it for what it is. Don't let your ego get in the way.

A woman in the early stages of dating with half a brain is going to let you know she is interested.
 

Stagger Lee

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Sh!t tests vs. being rude and disrespectful are two different things. Sh!t test is something women sometimes do when they are attracted to you but are testing your frame. Bottom line is there's some attraction there and you can fvck her if you don't change frame .

Rude and disrespect is a girl that's not interested in you and is trying to crush your self confidence. I call her out and go on my way.

Generally a woman who is interested/attracted is pleasant and compliant but not always. Sometimes a woman is friendly and it's not attraction, and sometimes a woman sh!t tests and there is attraction. Disrepect and rudeness is a whole other thing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jake-a-roo4

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By leaving. Leaving is not a sign of weakness it is a sign of strength. Weak men allow women to disrespect cos they are not a strong man the woman has utter contempt for him. A weak man will stay to be disrespected cos the woman knows that she is superior to the man she treats as inferior. Each time the man lets it goes on the worse the woman will treat him cos of her disgust. Leave that kind of woman cos that will be the only way you can be free.
 
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