"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best way to deal with disrespect from woman

ImprovingJuan

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Imagine a woman being shallow, thinking they are above you in every level and being rude / treating you as inferior.

what's the best way to deal with that? neg hits? what if its not her ***** shield in action, but her being rude because she's not attracted to you?

some women act *****y and rude to men they dont have empathy with. believe me, its the truth.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Payaso

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Ignore her.
 

VladPatton

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You don't put up with it and you leave her proximity and/or sever all ties and connections. Don't volunteer to be disrespected by a scummy twӓt.
 
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I'm going to blatantly say this and receive a lot of negative feedback.

A woman who is interested in you will rarely give you any sh!t test. That's right. Most sh!t tests come from women rejecting a man, and it is his way of coming to terms. A woman who is interested in you will not sh!t test you (of course later in the relationship they might.)

Disrespect from a woman early on absolutely means they are not interested in you. 'Sh!t tests' from a woman early on means they are not interested in you. Take it for what it is. Don't let your ego get in the way.

A woman in the early stages of dating with half a brain is going to let you know she is interested.
 

Stagger Lee

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Sh!t tests vs. being rude and disrespectful are two different things. Sh!t test is something women sometimes do when they are attracted to you but are testing your frame. Bottom line is there's some attraction there and you can fvck her if you don't change frame .

Rude and disrespect is a girl that's not interested in you and is trying to crush your self confidence. I call her out and go on my way.

Generally a woman who is interested/attracted is pleasant and compliant but not always. Sometimes a woman is friendly and it's not attraction, and sometimes a woman sh!t tests and there is attraction. Disrepect and rudeness is a whole other thing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jake-a-roo4

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By leaving. Leaving is not a sign of weakness it is a sign of strength. Weak men allow women to disrespect cos they are not a strong man the woman has utter contempt for him. A weak man will stay to be disrespected cos the woman knows that she is superior to the man she treats as inferior. Each time the man lets it goes on the worse the woman will treat him cos of her disgust. Leave that kind of woman cos that will be the only way you can be free.
 
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