"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This may seem like a pointless thread, but i'm just looking for some input on which one of these approaches sounds best. I'm gonna ask some girl to come to the movies with me, we went on 1 date about 2 weeks ago that went great but I haven't called her because i've been busy with family ****. Talked online the other day for like 5 min.

Which way of asking is best:

I wanna go to the movies this week and want you to come--- Maybe too AFC and desperate sounding

or

I wanna go to the movies and wondering if you wanna go--- Maybe too weak

Also, should I wait another day considering I chatted with her online just yesterday?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is what I do and it pretty much works all the time. Just start talking about movies that are coming out. And then just say hey lets go see blah blah and blah. Thats it. Never ask her out ever. I always use we should or lets go to....works like a charm.
 
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The Sperminator said:
This is what I do and it pretty much works all the time. Just start talking about movies that are coming out. And then just say hey lets go see blah blah and blah. Thats it. Never ask her out ever. I always use we should or lets go to....works like a charm.
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Well last time we hung out we talked about movies that are coming out. Besides I wanna keep it breif on the phone and get right to the point.
 
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"This new movie that just came out looks awesome. I'm going to go see it this weekend, come with me."

That's a variation of your first choice, so yeah go with something like that. Remember, YOU decide what the two of you are going to do. This means you don't rely on her "approval" i.e. "would you like to go?". Your life kicks so much ass that you want her to enter it and enjoy some parts of it. Good luck. :up:
 
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The Sperminator said:
This is what I do and it pretty much works all the time. Just start talking about movies that are coming out. And then just say hey lets go see blah blah and blah. Thats it. Never ask her out ever. I always use we should or lets go to....works like a charm.
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Well last time we hung out we talked about movies that are coming out. Besides I wanna keep it brief on the phone and get right to the point.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bat said:
"This new movie that just came out looks awesome. I'm going to go see it this weekend, come with me."

That's a variation of your first choice, so yeah go with something like that. Remember, YOU decide what the two of you are going to do. This means you don't rely on her "approval" i.e. "would you like to go?". Your life kicks so much ass that you want her to enter it and enjoy some parts of it. Good luck. :up:
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I wanna see her during the week, weekends I like to go out with friends to clubs/bars, so I was gonna ask for tmw or wed. So i'll just tell her I wanna go see it this week, and she should come.
 
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