Best way to ask out

[TheBaconator]

This may seem like a pointless thread, but i'm just looking for some input on which one of these approaches sounds best. I'm gonna ask some girl to come to the movies with me, we went on 1 date about 2 weeks ago that went great but I haven't called her because i've been busy with family ****. Talked online the other day for like 5 min.

Which way of asking is best:

I wanna go to the movies this week and want you to come--- Maybe too AFC and desperate sounding

or

I wanna go to the movies and wondering if you wanna go--- Maybe too weak

Also, should I wait another day considering I chatted with her online just yesterday?

 

[The Sperminator]

This is what I do and it pretty much works all the time. Just start talking about movies that are coming out. And then just say hey lets go see blah blah and blah. Thats it. Never ask her out ever. I always use we should or lets go to....works like a charm.

 

[TheBaconator]

This is what I do and it pretty much works all the time. Just start talking about movies that are coming out. And then just say hey lets go see blah blah and blah. Thats it. Never ask her out ever. I always use we should or lets go to....works like a charm.

Well last time we hung out we talked about movies that are coming out. Besides I wanna keep it breif on the phone and get right to the point.

 

[The Bat]

"This new movie that just came out looks awesome. I'm going to go see it this weekend, come with me."

That's a variation of your first choice, so yeah go with something like that. Remember, YOU decide what the two of you are going to do. This means you don't rely on her "approval" i.e. "would you like to go?". Your life kicks so much ass that you want her to enter it and enjoy some parts of it. Good luck.

 

[TheBaconator]

This is what I do and it pretty much works all the time. Just start talking about movies that are coming out. And then just say hey lets go see blah blah and blah. Thats it. Never ask her out ever. I always use we should or lets go to....works like a charm.

Well last time we hung out we talked about movies that are coming out. Besides I wanna keep it brief on the phone and get right to the point.

 

[TheBaconator]

"This new movie that just came out looks awesome. I'm going to go see it this weekend, come with me."

That's a variation of your first choice, so yeah go with something like that. Remember, YOU decide what the two of you are going to do. This means you don't rely on her "approval" i.e. "would you like to go?". Your life kicks so much ass that you want her to enter it and enjoy some parts of it. Good luck.

I wanna see her during the week, weekends I like to go out with friends to clubs/bars, so I was gonna ask for tmw or wed. So i'll just tell her I wanna go see it this week, and she should come.