"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best way to ask out a girl ?

VladPatton

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There is no "best way". Every woman is different.

The bottom line is that if a woman believes you have something she wants there is no wrong way to ask her out. If a woman believes you're a loser, then there is no right way to ask her out.

MEN: Stop obsessing over gimmicks and other PUA bullsh!t. All women care about is what you can do for them.

Exactly. You can be covered in sh!t, but if they like you, they'll say yes to you. On the contrary, if they dry heave at your mere appearance, you can have on an Armani suit and they'll tell you to fvck off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yuppaz

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All these Brad Pitt comparrisons are stupid to me. The fact of the matter is that to the girl, unless she already knows you and ogles you etc. you are NOT Brad Pitt or Fagging Tattum to her. You are not a 10 to her when you start out, you are probably like a 6 but you can become a 10 over time. You need to accept that she probably won't think the world of you when you are first meeting etc. You need to show her a good time, keep your cool, be a sexy guy and THEN she will move things around and make more time for you etc. That **** isn't usually automatic.
 

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I wouldn't say girls don't care about 'physical attraction' -- most do, especially if they are college aged. In most cases, it'll be hard to get a date unless you are their type ... physically speaking, that is.

The trick to asking out girls is just asking out a lot of them.
 
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