VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Exactly. You can be covered in sh!t, but if they like you, they'll say yes to you. On the contrary, if they dry heave at your mere appearance, you can have on an Armani suit and they'll tell you to fvck off.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Best way to ask out a girl ?
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Exactly. You can be covered in sh!t, but if they like you, they'll say yes to you. On the contrary, if they dry heave at your mere appearance, you can have on an Armani suit and they'll tell you to fvck off.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
All these Brad Pitt comparrisons are stupid to me. The fact of the matter is that to the girl, unless she already knows you and ogles you etc. you are NOT Brad Pitt or Fagging Tattum to her. You are not a 10 to her when you start out, you are probably like a 6 but you can become a 10 over time. You need to accept that she probably won't think the world of you when you are first meeting etc. You need to show her a good time, keep your cool, be a sexy guy and THEN she will move things around and make more time for you etc. That **** isn't usually automatic.
casanova_goat
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I wouldn't say girls don't care about 'physical attraction' -- most do, especially if they are college aged. In most cases, it'll be hard to get a date unless you are their type ... physically speaking, that is.
The trick to asking out girls is just asking out a lot of them.
The trick to asking out girls is just asking out a lot of them.