VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Exactly. You can be covered in sh!t, but if they like you, they'll say yes to you. On the contrary, if they dry heave at your mere appearance, you can have on an Armani suit and they'll tell you to fvck off.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best way to ask out a girl ?
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Exactly. You can be covered in sh!t, but if they like you, they'll say yes to you. On the contrary, if they dry heave at your mere appearance, you can have on an Armani suit and they'll tell you to fvck off.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
All these Brad Pitt comparrisons are stupid to me. The fact of the matter is that to the girl, unless she already knows you and ogles you etc. you are NOT Brad Pitt or Fagging Tattum to her. You are not a 10 to her when you start out, you are probably like a 6 but you can become a 10 over time. You need to accept that she probably won't think the world of you when you are first meeting etc. You need to show her a good time, keep your cool, be a sexy guy and THEN she will move things around and make more time for you etc. That **** isn't usually automatic.
casanova_goat
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I wouldn't say girls don't care about 'physical attraction' -- most do, especially if they are college aged. In most cases, it'll be hard to get a date unless you are their type ... physically speaking, that is.
The trick to asking out girls is just asking out a lot of them.
The trick to asking out girls is just asking out a lot of them.