"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bballer7389

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alright, Ive followed the bible, and I had not contacted her for 2 weeks, Worried about my own life, made some approaches etc.. but then out of the blue she calls me, I keep it short and to the point joke a bit with her but nothing else. So we talked for like 5 minutes or so. However since then I've heard that she's been waiting for me to call her, which I wont do. Should i just give her the cold shoudler and sarge on? or make a tiny attempt to at least keep in contact with her. Again, she has a bf so I dont want to get into **** with her man, but she seems to be really pushing to talk to me.......
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bballer7389

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soniq said:
do what you're doing now, she has a boyfriend so you shouldn't be the one pushing let her come to you if that's what she really wants.

Thanks, I figured I was donig the right thing in my gut, but I needed to be sure I was on the right track.
 

KillaCam

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Yep. Keep it cold, and live your life. She's an irrelevent matter.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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