"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alright, Ive followed the bible, and I had not contacted her for 2 weeks, Worried about my own life, made some approaches etc.. but then out of the blue she calls me, I keep it short and to the point joke a bit with her but nothing else. So we talked for like 5 minutes or so. However since then I've heard that she's been waiting for me to call her, which I wont do. Should i just give her the cold shoudler and sarge on? or make a tiny attempt to at least keep in contact with her. Again, she has a bf so I dont want to get into **** with her man, but she seems to be really pushing to talk to me.......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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soniq said:
do what you're doing now, she has a boyfriend so you shouldn't be the one pushing let her come to you if that's what she really wants.
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Thanks, I figured I was donig the right thing in my gut, but I needed to be sure I was on the right track.
 
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Yep. Keep it cold, and live your life. She's an irrelevent matter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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