"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bballer7389

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alright, Ive followed the bible, and I had not contacted her for 2 weeks, Worried about my own life, made some approaches etc.. but then out of the blue she calls me, I keep it short and to the point joke a bit with her but nothing else. So we talked for like 5 minutes or so. However since then I've heard that she's been waiting for me to call her, which I wont do. Should i just give her the cold shoudler and sarge on? or make a tiny attempt to at least keep in contact with her. Again, she has a bf so I dont want to get into **** with her man, but she seems to be really pushing to talk to me.......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bballer7389

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soniq said:
do what you're doing now, she has a boyfriend so you shouldn't be the one pushing let her come to you if that's what she really wants.

Thanks, I figured I was donig the right thing in my gut, but I needed to be sure I was on the right track.
 

KillaCam

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Yep. Keep it cold, and live your life. She's an irrelevent matter.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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