"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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txt message I get quite often from grils I talk to since I'm a ups driver ...."I just got hit on by a ups guy"

What are some goood responses ? I usualy just say"u sure it wasn't the other way around"

Btw why do they feel the need to tell me that?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I will deliver you a bigger, better package."

Or turn it around as if they also work there. I always do this. I keep saying "you work at ups. Its ok. Dont be embarrassed. Blah,blah blah, " until they finally get pissed and and say "I dont fvcking work at UPS!" Then I say "Then why have you been checking out my package?" or "you look like you want to handle my package," or something stupid like that. It gets a laugh usually. It backfired once, cuz the chick was a humorless bytch though.
 
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horaholic said:
"I will deliver you a bigger, better package."

Or turn it around as if they also work there. I always do this. I keep saying "you work at ups. Its ok. Dont be embarrassed. Blah,blah blah, " until they finally get pissed and and say "I dont fvcking work at UPS!" Then I say "Then why have you been checking out my package?" or "you look like you want to handle my package," or something stupid like that. It gets a laugh usually. It backfired once, cuz the chick was a humorless bytch though.
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Not a backfire at all. You found out early that she couldn't take a joke. Better now rather than later.
 
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