"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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magevis

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So last night I text a girl "Let's get together soon". This morning I get up to her response, a seemingly blithe "OK".Shouldn't something in the line of "When/Where?" be a better response. I already smell a flake written all over this as soon as I mention the time and place.

I'm yet to reply. How do I go about it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pyros

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she doesnt sound very excited about it but who knows. Just go ahead and see what happens.
 

marmel75

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"What's your schedule looking like this week?"
 

magevis

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"What's your schedule looking like this week?"
This is gold,thanks marmel75. Immediate reply to your line "can't say but not really busy".Date set up for tomorrow. will update
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maximus Rex

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Why are you inviting a chick to do random nothingness? Get together and do what exactly? You're reaching out to this chick like she's a friend you haven't kick it with in a while as opposed to some broad you're trying to catch some head from.

Do to the fact that she didn't tell you yes, you should move on because she isn't interested. However, since you guys don't like the truth and want to do some other sh*t, if sincerely want to kill two birds with one stone you call, (don't text,) and tell her, (don't ask) to come you somewhere.

Say "I'm going for drinks at 9. Meet me at the bar." If she says she can't offer another day. If she refuses your offer or doesn't agree to another day ole girl isn't f*cking with you.
 
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