You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.Victory Unlimited said:So when you're ready to spend a little more money, OR, if you just want to dress cool as fukk, like the soldier of love known only as "Victory Unlimited", then I suggest you START HERE:
www.internationalmale.com
Is that a man-purse under accessories?Victory Unlimited said:www.internationalmale.com
My suggestion to you is to put something aside EVERY paycheck, and buy YOURSELF something you like. And within six months you'll surely have at least a couple of weeks worth of really fashionable sets.
LOL!seanchai said:Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's hot.Victory Unlimited said:Yeah, SOME of the things they sell can be so flashy that they scream "showtime!". But I tend to go for the more conservative styles that better fit my complexion and image.
Stuff like this:
http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=DV133LBOzz&dept_id=10010&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey
That's not.Victory Unlimited said:
Thank you Paris Hilton!iqqi said:That's hot.