"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best places to buy clothes

Eiljwa

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Where do you guys shop for clothes? I was thinking something like Ross, maybe even the supermarket because they are cheap.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lord Shinra

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Syms.. Mens Warehouse.. Outlet stores.

Places like that. Good sh!t for a reasonable price. I bought a D&G coat for 200.
 

Bonhomme

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Thrift and vintage clothing shops.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Victory Unlimited

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I know that price is ALWAYS a realistic concern. But the older you get, the more you'll start to think of clothes, accessories, shoes, or whatever as more of an INVESTMENT as opposed to just "something to wear". (At least, I have.)

So when you're ready to spend a little more money, OR, if you just want to dress cool as fukk, like the soldier of love known only as "Victory Unlimited", then I suggest you START HERE:


www.internationalmale.com


My suggestion to you is to put something aside EVERY paycheck, and buy YOURSELF something you like. And within six months you'll surely have at least a couple of weeks worth of really fashionable sets.

And by the end of the year, your friends, your relatives, and ALL THE LADIES you meet will probably think of you as the cleanest, the most well-groomed, and the most well put-together guy they know.

Peace to you.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
So when you're ready to spend a little more money, OR, if you just want to dress cool as fukk, like the soldier of love known only as "Victory Unlimited", then I suggest you START HERE:


www.internationalmale.com
Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.
 
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tj

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banana republic when the stuff is on sale...got a 80 dollar silk tie for 20...bud is a manager puts stuff back for me.

Peace
 

Play the Game

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Victory Unlimited said:
www.internationalmale.com


My suggestion to you is to put something aside EVERY paycheck, and buy YOURSELF something you like. And within six months you'll surely have at least a couple of weeks worth of really fashionable sets.
Is that a man-purse under accessories? :rolleyes:
 

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seanchai said:
Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.
LOL!


Yeah, SOME of the things they sell can be so flashy that they scream "showtime!". But I tend to go for the more conservative styles that better fit my complexion and image.

Stuff like this:

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=F691LBAzz&dept_id=10260&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=IK8138BAzz&dept_id=10225&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=DV133LBOzz&dept_id=10010&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=H864LBAzz&dept_id=10340&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yeah, SOME of the things they sell can be so flashy that they scream "showtime!". But I tend to go for the more conservative styles that better fit my complexion and image.

Stuff like this:


http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=DV133LBOzz&dept_id=10010&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey
That's hot.

Victory Unlimited said:
That's not.
 

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