She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.Victory Unlimited said:So when you're ready to spend a little more money, OR, if you just want to dress cool as fukk, like the soldier of love known only as "Victory Unlimited", then I suggest you START HERE:
www.internationalmale.com
Is that a man-purse under accessories?Victory Unlimited said:www.internationalmale.com
My suggestion to you is to put something aside EVERY paycheck, and buy YOURSELF something you like. And within six months you'll surely have at least a couple of weeks worth of really fashionable sets.
LOL!seanchai said:Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's hot.Victory Unlimited said:Yeah, SOME of the things they sell can be so flashy that they scream "showtime!". But I tend to go for the more conservative styles that better fit my complexion and image.
Stuff like this:
http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=DV133LBOzz&dept_id=10010&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey
That's not.Victory Unlimited said:
Thank you Paris Hilton!iqqi said:That's hot.