"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best places to buy clothes

Eiljwa

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Where do you guys shop for clothes? I was thinking something like Ross, maybe even the supermarket because they are cheap.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lord Shinra

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Syms.. Mens Warehouse.. Outlet stores.

Places like that. Good sh!t for a reasonable price. I bought a D&G coat for 200.
 

Bonhomme

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Thrift and vintage clothing shops.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Victory Unlimited

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I know that price is ALWAYS a realistic concern. But the older you get, the more you'll start to think of clothes, accessories, shoes, or whatever as more of an INVESTMENT as opposed to just "something to wear". (At least, I have.)

So when you're ready to spend a little more money, OR, if you just want to dress cool as fukk, like the soldier of love known only as "Victory Unlimited", then I suggest you START HERE:


www.internationalmale.com


My suggestion to you is to put something aside EVERY paycheck, and buy YOURSELF something you like. And within six months you'll surely have at least a couple of weeks worth of really fashionable sets.

And by the end of the year, your friends, your relatives, and ALL THE LADIES you meet will probably think of you as the cleanest, the most well-groomed, and the most well put-together guy they know.

Peace to you.
 

seanchai

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Victory Unlimited said:
So when you're ready to spend a little more money, OR, if you just want to dress cool as fukk, like the soldier of love known only as "Victory Unlimited", then I suggest you START HERE:


www.internationalmale.com
Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.
 
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tj

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banana republic when the stuff is on sale...got a 80 dollar silk tie for 20...bud is a manager puts stuff back for me.

Peace
 

Play the Game

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Victory Unlimited said:
www.internationalmale.com


My suggestion to you is to put something aside EVERY paycheck, and buy YOURSELF something you like. And within six months you'll surely have at least a couple of weeks worth of really fashionable sets.
Is that a man-purse under accessories? :rolleyes:
 

Victory Unlimited

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seanchai said:
Hoooly sh¡t, I dress outlandish as fvck and even I think International Male is too homo. Respect to you for pulling that off.
LOL!


Yeah, SOME of the things they sell can be so flashy that they scream "showtime!". But I tend to go for the more conservative styles that better fit my complexion and image.

Stuff like this:

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=F691LBAzz&dept_id=10260&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=IK8138BAzz&dept_id=10225&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=DV133LBOzz&dept_id=10010&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey

http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=H864LBAzz&dept_id=10340&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iqqi

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yeah, SOME of the things they sell can be so flashy that they scream "showtime!". But I tend to go for the more conservative styles that better fit my complexion and image.

Stuff like this:


http://www.internationalmale.com/product.asp?product=DV133LBOzz&dept_id=10010&An=101&A=&Au=RollupKey
That's hot.

Victory Unlimited said:
That's not.
 

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