"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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best places for a date!

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I need ideas on the absolute best dating places- and please tell stories behind them if there are any! I'm anxious to see results of the places you mention and how they effected everything leading up to where you say goodnight or say goodmorning (if you know what I mean). One of the things I'm worst at is original ideas for places to go on a date, and I need some excitement besides going back to my place after a party or playing pool. Hope to see lots of posts!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If the girl is into you and you are into her, the place shouldnt matter too much. Otherwise do a search on here, there are tons of threads about this topic.
 

Paid Laid & Made

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PF Chang's is always my top choice.
 

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well... I know somebody who was nervous with a girl on the first date... he took her to the movies on the first date, they kissed and now they are having their 7th month anniversary
 

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I havn't tried it yet, but I will if all goes well, but my suggestion is getting loaded then going to play glow-in-the-dark mini put.

I'm asking out a girl who enjoys fermented beverages, and after putting a few back, glow in the dark mini put would be sensory overload.

Also, you get to hold a hook shapped stick (putter) which can be used for certain innuendous foreplay. And as a possibilty, you can take bets on holes in one, and whatnot, and continue to up the stakes.

Also works if weed is your thing.

I'll let you guys know how it works (assuming I get the date) expect me to post here in a week.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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