"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best place to meet girls

One on One

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No joke. I started working there recently and I swear there are so many hunnies in that place. The older women are hot. The younger women are hot. I have yet to try anything, but I've never seen a place with such a disproportionately high percentage of hot women. They dress classy as well. Also, they are often alone and are doing something such as reading or listening to music that you can comment on. They're usually bored and in for a long wait. Of course the catch is that if you don't work at an airport, you won't be there that much, and if you do, you're supposed to be doing your job.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tom121

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:rolleyes:

not really, but most flight's attendant chicks are hot ;)
 

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Not entirely pointless.

I've struck up great convo's with women at the bars in airports during a long lay-over. Its good for 'networking' and for just socializing and getting to know people from around the world...its fun striking up convos and getting travel ideas and tips from people who have actually been there.

BUT...what good does a number close do you when she lives in Pheonix AZ and you live in Winnapeg Canada? In that regard..PUs at an airport are pretty pointless.
 

One on One

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-

BUT...what good does a number close do you when she lives in Pheonix AZ and you live in Winnapeg Canada? In that regard..PUs at an airport are pretty pointless.
When you fly free (like me), it's not an obstacle.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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david90

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mall is a terrible place. It's hard cuz girls are on the move.
 

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I think a big MALL is much better than an airport, because the women shopping are local people that you have a better chance on seeing thrm again, plus shopping is a woman's favorite past time, most people go to malls regularly, the people that pass through airports are gone forever, once they get on that plane they are gone to another destination.

it's true a lot of nice looking women pass through airports everyday, mostly business women or executives during the week,
I doubt they would have much interest in a lowly baggage handeler or airline ticket clerk.
 

Broham

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Malls are really the only logical place to meet women during the week, specifically large bookstores. Usually ho's are in a relaxed state of mind and open to conversation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They have both their advantages and disadvantages. I was at Melbourne airport waiting for my plane, saw a HB 9 (mixed Malaysian+Chinese+Scottish, with Green eyes an auburn hair), chatted her up, turns out we were on the same flight (now what are the odds?) to Singapore. Thankfully the seats next to her on the plane were free, and I asked if i could join her (thanks to that baby who couldn't stop crying infront of me). Anyway, had a much longer chat, and managed to get some action in the bathroom with her, and never saw her again. Nice easy casual sex.

Mall's a good place as well. Nice clean girls most of the time. I go for the ones reading books and drinking coffee at Borders. One time i talked to one reading "The Da Vinci Code" and talked to her about how they're gonna make it into a movie. She was intrigued, we got to chatting, got the digits, and I'll let u know how it goes in 2 days.

Downside of a mall - most women are there to shop. They mean business.

Downside of an airport - women are at their most self-conscious, non-pickup-mood state.

OK. That's all i got so far. Might've missed a few things, but oh well...
 
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