LowPlainsDrifter
Senior Don Juan
I believe it's "it is better to light one candle, than to curse the darkness."brownbear. said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best piece of advice you've recieved
- Thread starter TheVirtualMind
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
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Mr.Positive
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Forget what she says, pay attention to what she does.
Her Interest Level will show through her actions..
Her Interest Level will show through her actions..
I would like to keep this going.
See things for what they are, not what you want them to be. (As in don't use ***** logic)
The person who is the worst judge of their own character, is himself. (basically your opinion of yourself is always colored. Ask many people about yourself)
See things for what they are, not what you want them to be. (As in don't use ***** logic)
The person who is the worst judge of their own character, is himself. (basically your opinion of yourself is always colored. Ask many people about yourself)
"What is the absolutely worst that could happen?" Ask this to yourself, write down your answers and you'll find, for the most part, your own fears are much larger than the actual listed 'bad' results.
"If you're not living, you're dying." (my personal motto)
"Your time is more precious than any other thing in life. It is the only thing you cannot get more of. AND you don't ever know how much you have."
"Hesitation kills."
Pook, Antidump --- gold for me
Most Master DJs on this site (especially the no nosence, call you on your B.S. guys) --- more gold to me
The DJ Bible and the Archives --- still more gold
AND the BPD thread on this site a couple of years ago that had a part in me wrestling my life and self back
Over and Out
"If you're not living, you're dying." (my personal motto)
"Your time is more precious than any other thing in life. It is the only thing you cannot get more of. AND you don't ever know how much you have."
"Hesitation kills."
Pook, Antidump --- gold for me
Most Master DJs on this site (especially the no nosence, call you on your B.S. guys) --- more gold to me
The DJ Bible and the Archives --- still more gold
AND the BPD thread on this site a couple of years ago that had a part in me wrestling my life and self back
Over and Out
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Poonani Maker
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What goes up will come down. Nothing lasts forever. If you think you'll be riding that "high" forever, you will be in for a big surprise. The exact opposite is true. What goes down, will surely come up. What is lost will be found. How can you not be happy forever with that advice?