LowPlainsDrifter
Senior Don Juan
I believe it's "it is better to light one candle, than to curse the darkness."brownbear. said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Best piece of advice you've recieved
- Thread starter TheVirtualMind
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
get the fvck out of arkansas
Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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Forget what she says, pay attention to what she does.
Her Interest Level will show through her actions..
Her Interest Level will show through her actions..
I would like to keep this going.
See things for what they are, not what you want them to be. (As in don't use ***** logic)
The person who is the worst judge of their own character, is himself. (basically your opinion of yourself is always colored. Ask many people about yourself)
See things for what they are, not what you want them to be. (As in don't use ***** logic)
The person who is the worst judge of their own character, is himself. (basically your opinion of yourself is always colored. Ask many people about yourself)
"What is the absolutely worst that could happen?" Ask this to yourself, write down your answers and you'll find, for the most part, your own fears are much larger than the actual listed 'bad' results.
"If you're not living, you're dying." (my personal motto)
"Your time is more precious than any other thing in life. It is the only thing you cannot get more of. AND you don't ever know how much you have."
"Hesitation kills."
Pook, Antidump --- gold for me
Most Master DJs on this site (especially the no nosence, call you on your B.S. guys) --- more gold to me
The DJ Bible and the Archives --- still more gold
AND the BPD thread on this site a couple of years ago that had a part in me wrestling my life and self back
Over and Out
"If you're not living, you're dying." (my personal motto)
"Your time is more precious than any other thing in life. It is the only thing you cannot get more of. AND you don't ever know how much you have."
"Hesitation kills."
Pook, Antidump --- gold for me
Most Master DJs on this site (especially the no nosence, call you on your B.S. guys) --- more gold to me
The DJ Bible and the Archives --- still more gold
AND the BPD thread on this site a couple of years ago that had a part in me wrestling my life and self back
Over and Out
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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What goes up will come down. Nothing lasts forever. If you think you'll be riding that "high" forever, you will be in for a big surprise. The exact opposite is true. What goes down, will surely come up. What is lost will be found. How can you not be happy forever with that advice?