LowPlainsDrifter
Senior Don Juan
I believe it's "it is better to light one candle, than to curse the darkness."brownbear. said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Best piece of advice you've recieved
- Thread starter TheVirtualMind
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
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Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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Forget what she says, pay attention to what she does.
Her Interest Level will show through her actions..
Her Interest Level will show through her actions..
I would like to keep this going.
See things for what they are, not what you want them to be. (As in don't use ***** logic)
The person who is the worst judge of their own character, is himself. (basically your opinion of yourself is always colored. Ask many people about yourself)
See things for what they are, not what you want them to be. (As in don't use ***** logic)
The person who is the worst judge of their own character, is himself. (basically your opinion of yourself is always colored. Ask many people about yourself)
"What is the absolutely worst that could happen?" Ask this to yourself, write down your answers and you'll find, for the most part, your own fears are much larger than the actual listed 'bad' results.
"If you're not living, you're dying." (my personal motto)
"Your time is more precious than any other thing in life. It is the only thing you cannot get more of. AND you don't ever know how much you have."
"Hesitation kills."
Pook, Antidump --- gold for me
Most Master DJs on this site (especially the no nosence, call you on your B.S. guys) --- more gold to me
The DJ Bible and the Archives --- still more gold
AND the BPD thread on this site a couple of years ago that had a part in me wrestling my life and self back
Over and Out
"If you're not living, you're dying." (my personal motto)
"Your time is more precious than any other thing in life. It is the only thing you cannot get more of. AND you don't ever know how much you have."
"Hesitation kills."
Pook, Antidump --- gold for me
Most Master DJs on this site (especially the no nosence, call you on your B.S. guys) --- more gold to me
The DJ Bible and the Archives --- still more gold
AND the BPD thread on this site a couple of years ago that had a part in me wrestling my life and self back
Over and Out
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Poonani Maker
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What goes up will come down. Nothing lasts forever. If you think you'll be riding that "high" forever, you will be in for a big surprise. The exact opposite is true. What goes down, will surely come up. What is lost will be found. How can you not be happy forever with that advice?