Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best opener for e-mail to new girl

Theunique1

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Any ideas? How do you open a beautiful girl online to get them to respond well?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why not tell her why you're writing? :rolleyes:
 

Chemistry

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Just be casual...

Tell her she seems like a fun / cool person... sounds like you've got a few things in common and you'd love to talk to her some more... any chick I add that way I'll always tell her my MSN or tell her that she can e-mail me too, then after speaking for 10 or 15 on MSN I'll grab her number or just straight arrange to meet up in person... I dunno, I just find that chicks respond better to the transition when they have a little more familiarity from a quick 10 min chat...
 

JPFromTally

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I once knew about a guy who chatted online with a girl I was banging for 6 months. No telling how nervous he was about asking for the number.
 

LA_Chico

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JPFromTally said:
I once knew about a guy who chatted online with a girl I was banging for 6 months. No telling how nervous he was about asking for the number.
OMG bro thats classic! your puttin it in her azz and you hear a instant message sound and respond "sorry bro, im busy bangin her, would you like me to take a message"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fortunate_Juan

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JPFromTally said:
I once knew about a guy who chatted online with a girl I was banging for 6 months. No telling how nervous he was about asking for the number.

UHHHH ROFL.

Try quoting the movie Deliverance.

"you shore do got a purdy mouth" "squeal like a piggey"

In all seriousness (please do not quote deliverance) there is no "line" that will make anyone respond. Why not try something you think is funny. Why do you want to be some one else. If you end up getting her with some one else's lines what are you going to do when you run out of them?
 

JPFromTally

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Seriously. They would chat online and he would talk about her day. She would tell me what a sweet guy he was. I didn't really much give a sh1t.
 

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Theunique1 said:
Any ideas? How do you open a beautiful girl online to get them to respond well?
all you gotta say really is "hi", or "hey wats good". if she finds you attractive she'll respond back, and then you go from there.
 
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