Theunique1
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Any ideas? How do you open a beautiful girl online to get them to respond well?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Best opener for e-mail to new girl
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not tell her why you're writing? 
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
Just be casual...
Tell her she seems like a fun / cool person... sounds like you've got a few things in common and you'd love to talk to her some more... any chick I add that way I'll always tell her my MSN or tell her that she can e-mail me too, then after speaking for 10 or 15 on MSN I'll grab her number or just straight arrange to meet up in person... I dunno, I just find that chicks respond better to the transition when they have a little more familiarity from a quick 10 min chat...
Tell her she seems like a fun / cool person... sounds like you've got a few things in common and you'd love to talk to her some more... any chick I add that way I'll always tell her my MSN or tell her that she can e-mail me too, then after speaking for 10 or 15 on MSN I'll grab her number or just straight arrange to meet up in person... I dunno, I just find that chicks respond better to the transition when they have a little more familiarity from a quick 10 min chat...
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
I once knew about a guy who chatted online with a girl I was banging for 6 months. No telling how nervous he was about asking for the number.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
OMG bro thats classic! your puttin it in her azz and you hear a instant message sound and respond "sorry bro, im busy bangin her, would you like me to take a message"JPFromTally said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
JPFromTally said:
UHHHH ROFL.
Try quoting the movie Deliverance.
"you shore do got a purdy mouth" "squeal like a piggey"
In all seriousness (please do not quote deliverance) there is no "line" that will make anyone respond. Why not try something you think is funny. Why do you want to be some one else. If you end up getting her with some one else's lines what are you going to do when you run out of them?
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Seriously. They would chat online and he would talk about her day. She would tell me what a sweet guy he was. I didn't really much give a sh1t.