"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Best nickname for a girl.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
Did anyone else find the above post amusing? "It's-Me, Maaario"
jeffthechef
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where that quote come from btw..."it's me-marrrrrrrrrrio"
i am sure i've heard that somewhere....some game or movie or something
pumpkin
princess
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cuddlebunny - they like this one
sexy sock girl - this girl wore knee high boots on a date and she had on knee high socks - later she was naked (except for the socks) - it was very cute
Find something in a moment - a fun moment is better - everytime you call them that it brings back that snapshot in time and they'll smile and they'll like it that you call them that
WHERE IS YOUR CHILDHOOD AT?jeffthechef said:lmao didn't even think about that
where that quote come from btw..."it's me-marrrrrrrrrrio"
i am sure i've heard that somewhere....some game or movie or something
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Of course there's nothing wrong with guys that do this, it's just not my style. As long as you like doing it and are comfortable with it, that's cool.
Don Shinra
Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.