"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best nickname for a girl.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
Did anyone else find the above post amusing? "It's-Me, Maaario"
jeffthechef
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where that quote come from btw..."it's me-marrrrrrrrrrio"
i am sure i've heard that somewhere....some game or movie or something
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cuddlebunny - they like this one
sexy sock girl - this girl wore knee high boots on a date and she had on knee high socks - later she was naked (except for the socks) - it was very cute
Find something in a moment - a fun moment is better - everytime you call them that it brings back that snapshot in time and they'll smile and they'll like it that you call them that
WHERE IS YOUR CHILDHOOD AT?jeffthechef said:lmao didn't even think about that
where that quote come from btw..."it's me-marrrrrrrrrrio"
i am sure i've heard that somewhere....some game or movie or something
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Of course there's nothing wrong with guys that do this, it's just not my style. As long as you like doing it and are comfortable with it, that's cool.
Don Shinra
Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.