"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NYKfan0303
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Hahahaha!
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Well deserved. Instead of going to jail that guy deserves a medal.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Ohhhh! I thought it was PARIS Hilton that got punched till I clicked the link. I don't like either one of them, so it's still good news!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
He made a video talking about what happened and it is pathetic. The guy really needs to grow up.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Normally I don't like wishing violence on people. But in this case, all I can say is, good.
The guy is a huge douche that makes a living primarily by violating people's privacy and getting in their faces.
I don't even know why society supports people like this by consuming their crap, but that's a different matter.
It's about time somebody decided his in your face attitude was a bit too much.
The guy is a huge douche that makes a living primarily by violating people's privacy and getting in their faces.
I don't even know why society supports people like this by consuming their crap, but that's a different matter.
It's about time somebody decided his in your face attitude was a bit too much.
The thing with PH is that he thrives on getting attention from the media and the more controversial/annoying he gets, the more people pay attention to him and the more famous he gets. That punch to the face was the best thing that has ever happened to him besides judging Ms America pagent.
Just like treating an attention wh0re, its better to ignore his whiney ass and hope he disappears for good.
Just like treating an attention wh0re, its better to ignore his whiney ass and hope he disappears for good.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't have anything against the guy but gay or not, if you're not a man, don't talk sh*t about people and not be ready to fight. Being "Fab" is no excuse to stop going to the gym when you're high profile.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Killer_Demo
Don Juan
about time that flamer cry-baby got beat up
CTApprentice
Don Juan
I don't agree with violence, but Perez had it coming. That was just a punk move to whine about it on twitter though.
Well, I read about it in several news sources and I think it's just a PR gag. I can't imagine that the Black Eyed Pea guy and the bodyguards really hit him. He probably had it coming but if they injured him, the should be punished according to the law. All in all, just another welcome story for the boulevard press.