"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Best (motivational) quotes you know
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PeasantPlayer
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
http://www.despair.com/demotivators.html
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"I am the greatest!" - Muhammad Ali.
"I'm not the greatest; I'm the double greatest!" - Muhammad Ali.
"I am gonna show you how great I am." - Muhammad Ali.
"Champions aren't made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them - a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have the skill, and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill." - Muhammad Ali.
"To be a great champion, you must believe you are the best. If you're not, pretend you are." - Muhammad Ali.
(This one is for you guys) "My toughest fight was with my first wife." - Muhammad Ali.
"I know where I'm going and I know the truth, and I don't have to be what you want me to be. I'm free to be what I want." - Muhammad Ali.
"I am the greatest; I said that even before I knew I was." - Muhammad Ali.
"All my life, I was told that I am not sh!t, that I'm ugly, not athletic, and that there is nothing special about me except all the bad traits in a person. Well to all you motherfvckers, look who's the big man now? Smarter, stronger, more socially apt, and better than ALL of you! NO one could have done what I have done in my life. NO ONE! So yeah, go ahead. Call me scrawny, ugly, weak, wussy, say that you can snap me like a twig with one finger one more time! It'll only make me stronger as I prove ALL of you wrong a THOUSAND times over! :box: :box: :box: " - Me.
"Look dude, you do what you gotta do. And deep down inside, you know EXACTLY what it is that you gotta do. The choice is yours if you want to follow through. But if you don't, hey man, that's on you." - Me.
I just realized something, the above [sort of] rhymes.
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Like Muhammad it's the truth
Can't escape from the common rule
If you hate something don't you do it too
Not for you, Pearl Jam
"Doing what you have always done, gets you what you've always gotten."
"You can't have a positive outcome with negative energy. So do what gives you positive energy first, then find your positive outcome."
"The inability to delay gratification leads to the biggest downfalls"
"The greatest and fastest gains in relationships happen when people just stop doing things that are negative. You don't even have to do anything new, just stop the endless displays of low value and negative energy"
Epi
MOTU
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I love those, here are some more.Bible_Belt said:
http://www.marcofolio.net/imagedump/top_40_demotivational_posters.html
Alltime favorite:
http://www.sharenator.com/D_D_D_Dem...onal_posters_my_way_get_out_of_it-139364.html
As far as answering the OP, check out Classics of Strategy and Counsel, by Thomas Cleary. I recommend every DJ get this three book series yesterday, OOP and usually expensive on Ebay but worth every penny.